Okay folks, I’ve been away for a while— doing my day job (as a stop smoking coach!) I’m happy to report that I’ve recently cut back my hours there so I can spend more time here. Look for more regular, and more radical approaches to stepping away from the smokes. Here’s a warm-up: “Just Be [...]
Here’s Why to Space Out: • Addiction is always an addiction of attention. • Freedom is a freedom of attention. • Attention is love. • Attention in its natural state is space-like. (Unbounded love.) • Attention short-circuited, is planet like. (bounded love) • Our education, our culture, our physical experience all lead toward short-circuiting of [...]
Is it possible that the Ahh of that first puff might be a Portal to Freedom? Let’s say you’ve been wanting to quit, and you’ve actually been doing pretty good. But now, doggone it, the craving is so strong that you’re really tempted, and in fact, you’re going to have a smoke. You tell yourself [...]
Let’s pretend that when you were younger, just for fun, and to have an adventure, you picked up a hitchhiker– the smoker identity. You were a brave, fun-loving soul! Ahh, youth! Naturally, when the hitchhiker first hopped in you asked, “where you going?” “No where special,” the hitchhiker replied. “Where you going?” “I’m just going [...]